Mellisaaa,
I'm really very sorry to hear about what happened.
I know the old stand-by of: "You're better off without him" is of no comfort. (Although it IS true).
Some of the folks here know a little bit about my (previous) situation -suffice it to say that I have a VERY dim view of infidelity. If you feel so inclined, PM me and I'll tell you how my similar tragedy turned to eventual triumph. (I can not help but believe that the same reversal of fortune will one day happen to you...)

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