dude~~~ As a woman I do think that I would want to know if my husband were cheating on me. A part of me does want to tell her and I'm ashamed to say it's not just so she'll know what he's up to. There is still a very raw part of me that would LOVE to rip him apart and destroy his real world like the truth has destroyed the world his lies let my mind build that would be ours soon.

It's hard to figure out. I don't like her!!! But just talking to her and her letting me into the life she see's as having for even those few minutes, well I just don't think I can be the one to call and tell her that her life as well as mine is lies! I do honestly have a sick side that doesn't want to be the only one upset. I just don't know if I can handle her reaction. In a perfect world I could cause him pain and not have to do it through her. (sigh)

Wildeye~~~ I do enjoy the sexual side of things here, but right now I am oh so greatful for the compassionate side as well. Thank you so much!