I've tried the IcyHot thing on my boyfriend and it didn't turn out to be a very good experience (although it was a nice idea...). It is just a little toooooo tingly for my boyfriend. We've found that rosemary or peppermint oil in small amounts mixed with a little veggie oil makes for a slick and tingly lube without being quite as strong. I'm not sure if it was just him or not, but I'd try it out on a small area before going for the globs...:redghost:

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